She got angry again because I came home late. I work for this family and I'm always the bad guy.
That sounds exhausting: you give a lot, and it feels unseen.
Can I ask you something? When you came in, what did she hear first: why you were late, or that you'd thought of her?
01The coach
A coach that doesn't just tell you you're right.
Liyan is not there to comfort you in your certainties. It helps you understand why conflicts happen, and how to resolve them.
- i.It listens.What you feel is welcomed first, without judgment.
- ii.It sheds light.It shows you the other's point of view, and what the cycle changes.
- iii.It challenges you.If you have your share in the conflict, it tells you, tactfully. Then it helps you find what to do.